Wow, my heart goes out to you. I can feel the pain you are both in. I will tell you that in 2010 i used the divorce remedy and it was really, really hard but i fixed my marriage. My wife believed it was not possible but i proved her wrong. I believe the same can happen for you.

Let me ask you a couple of questions

1) When do you feel things became distant?

2) When was the last time you talked about your future together?

M:33
W:32
Married 10/28/07
C: B13 G10 (Both from different relationships)
12/30/09 Bomb
Divorce Busted 2/04/10
5/15/12 Bomb 2