Ya, i am not sure what the best coarse of action is. I have been doing my 180 and i have been consistent. Yes, some weeks i will not do as good as others but i am really doing a way better job. Things have changed in the last year. I am the main bread winner. I help out a lot more and we spend almost every weekend together. The problem is she doesn't want to do anything but sit around that house. The second problem with that is i don't force her to do anything else because i am completely ok with that. My wife has also become very fit and works out often. I am kind of on the heavy side. This is something i need to work on. I started a heavy work out last night and will continue to do so. Sadly, that's not a hobby that i feel we can both get into because i really hate working out. I know i have to do it but i really hate it...it has zero fun quality's to me. However, that doesn't mean we can't work on something active that we both enjoy.
travis
M:33 W:32 Married 10/28/07 C: B13 G10 (Both from different relationships) 12/30/09 Bomb Divorce Busted 2/04/10 5/15/12 Bomb 2
