How could you get an F when you weren't even registered for the class?
You did well! You think I knew this before I read the book?
You made some amazing discoveries and now your insights and knowledge are going to pay you back with interest. Just watch and see. I know that you're going to see them too.
I did all the wrong things too: I'd do and fold his laundry but he had to put them away... just something that carried forward from my childhood. My mom would put all the nicely folded and ironed clothes on our beds for us to put away. She felt that how we arranged our drawers was private and didn't want us to ever think she snooped (and I'm happy to say, my mom ROCKS in that department).
Mr. W. felt I had just not finished the job. This came out in MC this summer--he actually came out and said I didn't love him because I didn't put his clothes away (like I do for D6--D9 puts hers away).
Now it sounds completely stupid to me, but that's how I verified what I thought was true.
I could actually see that he was sort of "turned on and turned in" by and to me this summer when I was out there sweating and mowing the lawn and edging. A*hole loved that! I hated it, because I hate lawn work. IT SUCKS!
So even though he's read the 5LL, he hasn't made any attempt whatsoever to speak mine. When we get to the point where I get to ask for what I want, hearing nice words is going to top my list...
I look really nice today (and smell nice too). I know he noticed, but did he say anything? No.... but I could feel his eyes on my back when I walked down the steps. What a maroon.
Meredith--I posted some helpful hints for you at your place.
Hugs!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
