Is this sort of thing normal? Not really sure why she is here...what does she want?
IDK... is there ANYTHING that is normal about someone who ends a long term M, yet wants to remain "friends" with the person they left?
I think only normal in the sense that they are human and most people do not actually WANT to hurt someone. Especially not a "friend".
But I did find it interesting when you posted earlier about her telling you she would be in town and not really having anyone else to go to for accommodations... yet... she's busy visiting other friends... while staying with you...
Could she not have got a hotel room? Sure, expensive... but again, could she not have rotated her overnight schedule, distributing herself amongst other friends' homes as well as hotel rooms?
I am sure that there are those who would suggest she is just using you... I'm not the type of person to jump to that conclusion...
She MIGHT be...
But, if that is the case, she may be "using" you, in order to rebuild a connection... or trying to see if she can "feel for you" again... or even trying to get you to accept her as a friend...
She has an underlying motivation to be staying with you... that, I'd be sure...
The bigger question is... why did YOU want her to stay with you?
