Sadly Returning

[mishka422]

Travis, I'm so sorry you find yourself back here in this situation.

You know the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder"? Is it possible that putting some distance between you may help her to think more clearly about what she wants?

I'm not saying that you should leave your home, that may be a little too extreme, but separate yourself more emotionally from her.

No R talk. Keep it to the simple things and logistics. Don't talk about D, it tends to make it a foregone conclusion in their already muddled minds.

In short....just step back and give her space and time. Don't make any decisions or chart a direct path.