Pamela, what a great way to end your day with your H. The fact that you and he are able to connect physically (and still live in the same house, for goodness sake) is a very good sign indeed.
So go with that thought today.
What more little happy surprises are you going to spring on him today? Know what works for us Words of Affirmation types (though this is really in the gifts category, it combines a little of both)? Does he take his lunch to work? Leave him a little yellow sticky note with something nice--let's not say ILY yet... how about these:
1. Thinking of you today and hope you have a happy one! 2. Just want to send you a happy face 3. Thanks for ______ (whatever good thing he did the day before). 4. You're my best friend.
Anything positive that makes him feel cherished. You start speaking his love language, girl, and this guy is going to respond favorably.
Now if I'm wrong about his LL, you can read and tell me here.
Blair (another DBer here) told me that marriage is like a hilly pasture. When things are tough, you have to LOOK uphill, not devise ways around it. I like that thought, which is along the lines of Pamela's thinking.
Have a great day!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
