Hi Robb, sorry that you're having troubles. You say what was missing was a great sex life. For a W, there's a lot more to a great sex life than sex. Can you dig any deeper? Why weren't you finding or making time, both of you? What might she have been resenting and not telling you? Did you communicate really well together?

In DB, what to do next is usually work on you, make marriage to you better than it was, be someone she'd be a fool to leave. Is there anything there that you can see to work on?

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.