Someday, just been reading your story and there was so much in there that parallels mine I felt I just had to write to say how brilliantly you have handled things. I unfortunately am a classic example of someone who forgot everything about DB as soon I thought things were moving in the right direction, moved back too soon and and now back in the position of a husband who 'knows' I'm not what he wants.

Please keep posting, and I wish you the very best.