Thanks Meredith. Only by reading correspondence between you and Betsey did I realize that I had a name...Crazymaker. Even so, it took a bit longer for me to see where the crazymaking was coming from. I cannot believe how guilty I was of doing the same things over and over--just upping the ante each time it wasn't working. I know I gravitated towards you guys (girls) for a reason. I have so much to learn! I will do my best to offer what I have in return...