My goals for the week. 1.) I will not initiate any conversation unless out of necessity for our kids. 2.) I will accept myself for who I am forced to become. 3.) I will force myself to smile and be pleasant around my H. 4.) I will stop focusing on all the wrongs I did in our R and start remembering all the good things we had. 5.) I will GAL. Start going out and enjoy life without him. I will reconnect with old friends and make new ones. 6.) I am going to learn to walk in 3 inch heels.