What can I say? I logged in at the right time and my fingers were itching!!! I put myself through college typing and word processing. I actually THINK better at a keyboard...

Pamela, have you read the 5 Love Languages? I'm thinking that you and your H would get something good out of it. Even Mr. Wonderful has read it and likes what it has to say. I'm trying to speak his language when the opportunity arises... his is Acts of Service. Mine is Words of Affirmation, and he gets a big fat F as of right now. Stay tuned for any changes with the new job...

Judge you? What the hell for? For not being perfect? If that were the criteria, we'd live in one big glass house, wouldn't we?

Hey, you're human and you want to be a better person. That's a good place to be, Pamela. Besides, I came awfully close to a PA for the same reason as you, so what would that make me? Oh, yes... human with needs too.

The best you can do now is to shut that barn door and explore the possibilities that lie ahead of you. And Pamela, you have lots of them.

And what a great job in finding a reason to call him. NOW YOU KNOW HOW TO PRESS A POSITIVE BUTTON! You're just going to have to do more, in a sincere fashion. I'm betting your guy is a words of affirmation person like me...

Okay, so get busy knocking down that wall!


"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein