Hi Betsey,

I am really enjoying our conversation and you are helping me out so much!!

Yes, I don't need a man and, I'm not even sure I want one in my life. When I sit and breathe deeply I see myself traveling the world and spending time in different schools enjoying children. I see singing and dancing and playing...that's what I see.

Wow, maybe I have grown up? I enjoy men and all that comes with them, but I just don't know where they fit into the puzzle of my life? I really, really like this stage of life. I know who I am and where I'm headed and I'm excited. Would a man interrupt my new life? Thanks for commenting over on my other thread. I don't know about trust issues, but I'm willing to consider that could be a definite possibility...I opened my heart and bared my soul for 20 years to get kicked to the curb. Do I want to risk that again???

Thanks for the insights; hope you had a great Monday!

smile Lynn


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B