Not sure where to start, Part 3

[jks]

I feel like I have really let them down by not saving our marriage.

How are YOU letting them down? You're the one that's trying to save the marriage.

You're doing the best you can and if he's making these decisions that isn't YOUR fault.

Going through the actions and actually doing the work to get the D done can really start to put things into perspective for a WAS. And if he's depending on you for a lot of that, then he's not really doing the work to get it done.

Let him do the work. That's the least he can do IMO.