Yes she is the first person he went on a date with and he's continued to see her. He now describes it as a serious relationship.
It's hard to say. He was convinced nothing was wrong. I think that's pretty typical of the H's of WAW's. I started seeing a IC to get my head together. He said some pretty nasty things about that. I think that was out of insecurity or fear. He just said he respected my decision and never let on that he was upset about it. Said that he wanted the best for me etc. I kept busy, going out, dating, throwing myself into work to convince myself it was the right decision. Later much later after I admitted a change of heart he told me he pretty much cried non stop the entire month of Jan. At Christmas he joked about us just getting back together that it would be easier and I laughed I didn't take him seriously.
I am doing brillantly only because of this board! I am working hard because I want to be a better person and a better partner regardless of what happens.
