Damn KD. Thx for that post. It is quite scary actually. I do feel my wife is in MLC mode and definitely a "hormone" piece which I truly believe is triggered from stress and her inability to handle stress that well.

Mr. B. I understand what you're saying but I'm sorting out a lot of anger, anxiety, insecurity issues stemming from 10 years of childhood abuse ages 2-12. I'm slowly getting there but mix this toxic situation in and lack of work (I own my own company and it's slow....) makes a hamster go crazy. In the meantime I have my resume back out there and hope to land a day job to keep me busy and structured.

I also have a big decision coming up on the 24th. I have a much nice place available to me and it would be a year lease. I don't see me moving home at all and after reading KD's post I have a better understanding why my W is acting nice and civil.

Certainly not encouraging and my reactions to her hormonal outburst make her say things like "you'll never change" etc.. Even though she slamming me with electric caddle prod.

Anyways thx Kd and Mr. B. I'm going to get in a position where I don't react to her nonsense. The next 10 days will unfold a new chapter in my life I believe.

Hamster