I talked with a friend today that is getting divorced. He said that his ex was acting crazy. Doesn't almost everyone on the board feel that the other person is acting if they went crazy? That is why you hear so much about MLC. I don't think it is MLC I just think that they think the grass is greener somewhere else and when they see or talk to you it brings up memories that they or desperately trying to get over so they say and do things that are not normal for them. I think they are lost also. So many spend so much of their thoughts on wondering why and what their x is doing. It is wasted time. The purpose of DBing is to focuss that time on creating a better you. Think about yourself. Plan your future. That is just my thoughts.