Wendy, Pack the stuff up and when the house is sold and he is moving, make sure those boxes go w/him. Right now, he doesn't want to be bothered w/any of those things because they are reminders of the good life that he had.
I'm sorry you are having a downer today, but cry as much as you need to in order to get it out of your system. You'll find that after each bout, you'll get stronger.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
