Lynn,

Wasn't the weather miserable? I really didn't mind too much, as I needed to get some stuff done indoors and I like doing them more when the weather forces me to stay inside. But having the heat on in May just seems "not right".

Glad you got a hike in! The girls and I went to see The Avengers (which was great). When we walked in the theater, it was yucky. When we walked out 3 hours later, it was beautiful. Go figure? But yes, it was a nice day all in all.

I checked out POF but didn't do anything. With my D18 graduating next week and a butt load of family arriving next weekend, the timing isn't right.

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Right now if the guy never called me again I would be totally fine with that. Hmm....what does that say?


Well.... I'd say that you and I are both at a stage in life where we are completely fine with being on our own. I don't see this as a bad thing, Lynn. Maybe if you employ behaviors that are beacons for the banner that says "Go Away" you might want to ponder that a bit. (Please note that I'm not at all criticizing if you do... as one who has worn that banner consistently for years now.)

Maybe you've grown up? Maybe you realize subconsciously that this great guy is gravy on your mashed potatoes that you really enjoy but don't need? I'd say that was healthy. Everyone wants to be wanted but not needed... And just maybe you and I were both the types of people before who didn't get that? In my younger days, I had to be needed as well as wanted, because that was a hook to keep them with me. (Yuck!!! This grosses me out to read this now...)

Feel free to weigh in here... your musings help me in my own... grin

smile Betsey


"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein