Thanks Mr. Bond and Starsky. Yes, you are right. Once I made it clear to him that IC was not an option and a critical component to the recovery of our M, he agreed and actually followed through by making the appointment.

I'm not backing down on this issue. He needs IC if there are any hopes for the long-term survival of our M.

M:12yr
06/11:IDLYA
07/11:Moves out
08/11:PA disc(began in May)
09/11:Moves w OW
10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt
11&12/11: Touchngo w me
1/12: Comes home-PA resumes
2/12: PA disc; PA ends
Today: Piecing