Well overall it was a good weekend, and somehow we are getting along and putting the kids first. I swear this is a crazy roller coaster.
After confronting him about the property settlement that he is assuming, he has backed off a bit. I was on my way to take my mom to lunch for Mothers day on Saturday when I got notification that the password to our joint account was changed, ugh
I immediately texted him to say "that is illegal, you may want to rethink that" All of our household bills are online bill pay via that account.
He came back to say it was a mistake and he has proof that it was the banks error. He was adding a new account in just his name and it was not supposed to link to the other account at all. Now I have to call the bank to fix my side but nothing has been touched.
He said "as bad as things are, I promised to not ruin you financially and I intend to keep that promise"
I explained that the boys are with me and he is ultimately hurting them, so for that I am thankful (although I don't fully believe him)
Yesterday we texted a few times about the boys and it was calm, he even thanked me for updating him.
I had a very nice mothers day with the boys. They took me to lunch (I got to pay of course haha); S17 bought me flowers and put them in the vase to surprise me. They both helped clean up around the house. Overall it was a wonderful day!!
Will have to see STBX tonight at baseball. We are planning and building the float for S17 prom which is this weekend. As long as we continue to put the kids first, we should be able to do this...I hope.
One day at a time....
For the most part I feel good today though. Hope everyone had a nice weekend!
