Things are still going well. We had a lovely weekend. H ended up going to that party and staying at a friends house overnight and got the bus home early the next morning. He had a good time, but said it was a lot of hassle involved to get there and back (wasn't blaming me for not driving him). His parents thought it was weird that he went to the party and I didn't. I just said I wasn't in the mood (LOOOOONG week at work) and his mother said I should have told him he couldn't go either. I was like, ummmmm, we're not attached at the hip, he's a grown man and if he wants to go to a party with mutual friends, I don't really care. I just don't want to go myself. I think it's healthy that we can go do seperate things at times. We do spend a lot of time together.

Sunday was nice, went to my mother's house in the day then his mother's in the evening. Dinner was nice, not too much tension with his family as his mother was a little peeved that we haven't really spoken to her much since we've been home. But, not my problem. Maybe if she wasn't so negative and nasty, we'd want to spend more time with her.

H is still more affectionate. He kissed me goodbye this morning and he is being his usual silly self. It feels really nice. I don't think he realized how affected I was by his distance. I tried to keep it to myself, but I don't really know how successful I was at this.


M:29
H:30
M:2.5 years
T:13 years
No kids
EA:11/2011
PA:01/2012
Bomb:02/2012
H starting another EA, I had enough and we seperate: 03/08/2012
Trying to decide what I want for a change...