Alamo I am impressed that you didn't just shut the door right in her face after what she's been up to recently!
I'm a little suspicious of her blaming her father and her L for what she's been "put up to do" given that she then went on and seemed to be very comfortable using your past against you in your conversation as you have summarized it (please correct if I'm reading that incorrectly). Definitely don't do anything without consulting your Ls. Tread carefully when you meet with her again. Good luck.
Thanks, Verab and thanks for dropping in.
Yes, I agree that she had and still has the power to decide on her own, rather than putting the "blame" on others. And yes, she basically dissed me on-and-off in my own house, but I thought, you know what, it couldn't hurt to hear her out, could it? As long as I didn't get emotionally dragged into the conversation, I figured I should give my wife the benefit of the doubt.
