I think she just might be living the 'staying good friends' fantasy, which, you are correct, will not work.
She is staying with me because "you are my best friend and I am more comfortable there than anywhere else in town"
She is getting into cooking, gardening, etc. Like she never left. Quite bizarre. Don't know what to think.
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