I think she just might be living the 'staying good friends' fantasy, which, you are correct, will not work.

She is staying with me because "you are my best friend and I am more comfortable there than anywhere else in town"

She is getting into cooking, gardening, etc. Like she never left. Quite bizarre. Don't know what to think.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012