If so... and dig deep to see if that is or is not a real possibility, deep down...
That might be something you want to focus and work on...
What is it that causes you to enlist others to help you do what you want? Why can't you rent a moving van, grab a friend, and go for a ride to pick up a bigger item...?
What is it about you, that serves you... to appear helpless?
IF someone chooses to help... why do you feel guilty about their reasons for helping you?
Why would you place a greater emphasis or meaning out of them helping you?
Focus on you...
Not on your H and what ever meanings he might place on his choices...
