NLW, I'm in the same leaky boat today and visiting other threads for words of wisdom.

I just keep thinking-his choices are not about me, they are about him.

Thanks, Accuray, for the post.

(((NLW)))

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss