So robb...

What happened? What role did you play this time... or once again... that brought your M back here?

What are your thoughts as to the possible reason why 2nd Ms are 10% more likely to fail that the 1st?

Yes, your W having an OM is a bad choice... a really, really bad choice...

But do you remember ever hearing that an OP is a symptom of a poor M?

What do you think might have been missing for your W... in what way is it possible you hadn't been meeting your W's needs...?