Thanks, Accuray about the 'second choice' thought! That is a great way to think.
As for the mortgage payment, we did discuss that he would have to pay half the mortgage until we are divorced because he is legally responsible for half our debt until the divorce date. He did give me May's mortgage payment early when we were dividing things up, but I don't think he will just offer it up unless I 'remind' him.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
