I haven't got time for the pain

[tested metal]

This weekend was a hoot! First I got the pleasure of having ex-OM come to my workplace and eyeball me for most of my shift.
When I got home I asked God for a sign for what I should do. Should I go for full custody? Is W trustworthy? Not even 30 seconds after my prayer I got a text from STBXW.

She texted me telling me that her accountant (my MIL)told her that she would get all these tax breaks for having primary custody that I wouldn't get if I had it.

Then she informs me that she is going to put our child in a licensed daycare (without my consent mind you) because she claims that our daycare person and I are "drinking buddies." She tells me that the new daycare would "meet my high expecations". This is funny because I am fine with the daycare already provided. Daycare lady does a great job and D1 loves her. As for the drinking buddies claim, on Wed. nights I usually go out for my free burger and a beer at a local bar. I see friends there and talk. It so happens that one week the daycare lady came in with her friends and I chatted with her for 5 min. asking about D1's day. Now STBXW is making mountains out of molehills. The funny thing is that STBXW chose her as daycare in the first place. I want the best for my D1, but right now my money is stretched REALLY thin and the hike in daycare expense will break the bank.

After informing STBXW that OM was eyeballing me at work she said "well that's what you can expect for working at an unsavory place, you will come across unsavory people." This is the same woman that was living with this D-bag not 2 months ago!!! After realizing that STBXW had absolutely no care for my well being and that I cared for her's after her incident I decided that I can not trust her with anything, including our child's well being.

I texted her to not contact me unless it involved Sophie's care and that I was done with working on the relationship. I told her that any other communication can go to my lawyer.

The next day she texted about 10 time about dropping off D1 at my place, which we already had an agreed upon time.

Today I am going to my intial mediation meeting and then I will try to see my laywer to discuss my options with trying to obtain primary custody and possibly full custody.