I'm at a crossroads again. I think I want to continue DB, but I don't want to be someone's second choice and if he does come back to me, I feel as if I am his second choice.

He does not have military pension, but he does have his retirement fund at his current job.

I am going to respond to his email sometime in the next couple of days, but I'm thinking I am going to respond to it, as if, I would normally talk to him...make a joke about how he sent my property taxes (he used duct tape to close the envelope) and be my normal self. I am not going to address his questions about D. If he wants it, then go get the information for it!

How do I bring up the mortgage payment? It's not due until the 1st of the month, but I would like him to send me his half...or do I not even bring it up?!?


M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs
Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!)
EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12
H introduces OW to his fam: June
H moves ALL stuff out: July

I'm living my truth without your lies..