Damn. I've been holding that in for more than 6 months. That wasn't long enough?

I really do think there is something wrong with marriage in this country and I want to talk about it. Do I have to wait until mine is resolved?

That wasn't to my wife or about my wife. Is it really that bad? I haven't had a blog in years. When I want to tell people what I'm thinking about, Facebook is where I do it. I'm 10 months into my sitch and have said nothing to anyone yet.

The fact that I'm willing to talk about this thing openly when I know it might be upsetting to my W is a sign of my current detachment. That post had very little to do with her and I wasn't thinking of her when I wrote it.


The truth is that I'm a little less concerned what my wife's reactions to things are now.

Maybe I'm off on the wrong path, but I feel more honest and whole to be saying this stuff to my friends.

- All for the kids -
Me:34, W:35
M:7, T:13
S6, D3 + my D15 from previous marriage
July 2011 "I think I need a separation"
W filed D September
Currently living apart - she has the house, I rent a room