Hey GM. I agree with Snodderly if it helps. Your H may have been helping your son more than doing anything for you. Something to consider and be grateful for. Many of the MLCrs don't do ANYTHING with their kids or they let their emotions get in the way of helping their kids. They let their anger toward their spouse get in the way of helping a child who otherwise may not be able to get you a gift.
Focus on the positive and let the rest go. It won't serve you well
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."