So, here is the question that I don't see ask very often. I have been in an 11 year R. I have no dating skills. I don't know how to pick a girl up. And when I wanted to have sex I usually just ask "hey you want to". I go to school and church but I don't see a time to pickup on girls and no to the grocery store also. I am in my 40's and I just don't know. I don't want to spend alot of time alone. My x is screwing everything in sight. Now, that is not what I am after but a phone call to talk to someone would be nice. My phone hasn't rung one time today.
When I do talk to a girl which is at a bar I get the number but they seem shy and timid when I talk to them on the phone. I don't know the dating game and it is important to know. I do want a R again and I do want to have sex again with someone decent and not a bar fly that has been shared by all.