But you have a lot to learn and a lot of distance to go yet.
Why is SM like that? Why does she stalk you? Really? You don't have a clue?
How on earth can she be comfortable with another woman's husband? Look at it like this: if son doesn't hate you, then maybe, just maybe, there's a chance that you aren't the crazy witch she believed you to be, right? And maybe, just maybe XH doesn't make her very comfortable in their relationship?
Now what right? Son left. H might be the lunatic after all. What does that say about her, right?
Know what I suggest? Be there for your son, be happy with and for him and be patient with him.
Oh, and why are you with the BF again? Might be time to consider leaving him, SL. Really.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."