been at what for years? trying to get my husband back? HAHAHA that's terrible.

But I am blushing thank you I am really happy that I'm able to help any. I just give my advice as if you were my friend and I want the best for you!

Okay PUT DOWN THE PHONE. if you don't want to ignore, fine on her next text say something that cuts off the conversation ie I'm really tired, I've been working all weekend going to take a nap/heading out with friends/something that can end it.

Positives: A) high 5 on the whole anniversary!!! I think that conversation went well! Who cares if you really forgot because you weren't going to send her a card/text anyway! Right? riiiiiight, B??? please say right. haha
B) she asked you about the country music, the concert and you were easy brezzy.
I actually looked at my old texts from THAT MOMENT when H GAL piqued my interests. I texted him saying why is there a fifth of vodka in the kitchen? since when do you drink alone? this is weird. whatever I'm ending this convo.

Negatives: you shouldn't have called. Hey, I'm not the best at this either but you should have left it. Give her space to think about things like you not sending card and how that makes her feel.
Also stop pursuing! you practically asked her out on a date, suggested it, then a venue. She baby stepped into being curious about you....kinda peeked around the corner and you ran out on the front lawn opened the doors and invited her to a bbq!

End it while you're ahead and continue to detach. All in all I think she's getting interested!