Oh yeah I forgot because I got so spun up, thanks for your post Brit, you are the best. I agree with labug, I know you just started here but your eloquence and train of thought are extremely helptful to everyone here I think, especially me. I would have thought you have been at this for years. Thank you again, I will read up on the pursuit/distancer/detachment dance because that's certainly what I'm in the midst of!!!


me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!