Hi, thanks for your replies - you're absolutely right, I think his expectations have been through the roof and I guess I had expectations that we would talk things through more. In hind sight (what a wonderful thing!) I probably moved back too quickly. But I'm here now. I know I should have had no expectations, but I've done the best I can at least to to react to them not bearing fruition.
Since the text I have had some sweeping statements from him - 'somethings missing', we're not going to be ok', and 'I'd try if I thought things would change'. I've learnt that my H is very black and white, and reacts to how he's feeling in that moment.
Yesterday he told me that he knows we get on really well, but doesn't feel over our entire relationship (the last 6 years) that we've ever had a great time, and if it hasn't happened yet then it never will. This is in complete contrast to what he's said over the past couple of months
I'm not sure what to do now. He isn't going to come to my brother's wedding in 2 weeks and has cancelled the holiday we were going on in June.
With the house - legally he can't force me out because we're married and that's the law here, but he did buy me out when we separated last year and I have my own place, which is why I'm feeling a bit awkward about digging my heels in and staying.
I'm trying to focus on how far we have come over the past year, but it's hard! Thanks, as ever, for taking the time to post.
