Your H sounds like mine. They don't want to worry about their kids health so they look for the positive in it somewhere.
S3 (soon 2b 4) has MANY health issues. Whenever we got bad news H would break down inside but would look positive on the outside.
BTW: S3 had an atrial septal defect. Normally it heals on its own. Only if your cardio wants to work on it they will do so before they start kinder (so it doesn't disrupt their school schedule). It's very invasive surgery. HOWEVER, my son was the small percentage that needed emergency open heart because it didn't go well It was a very difficult time for H n I, but I think more for H. He spent the first few nights with him in the ICU. No bed but a hard chair. -I had a lot of faith in the doctors at childrens hospital.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
It was a very difficult time for H n I, but I think more for H. He spent the first few nights with him in the ICU. No bed but a hard chair. -I had a lot of faith in the doctors at childrens hospital.
