I am new too and sounds like in a similar situation with my husband! He says he doesn't want to work on it and is planning to move out also. I read DB and now I'm waiting for DV to come. I just had a baby and didn't see this coming either. I posted the whole store in another thread I started. I have been trying 180's but I think I need more help with them. This whole time is so confusing. My husband has completely shut down.
