Thanks Accuray! I did talk to a lawyer last week (a couple of them) and I do know what everything will look like. I am entitled to half his pension and he already signed over the house to me and refinanced his car, so it won't be too 'hard' of a divorce.
My H does not want to get a lawyer...so that's why I think he won't file. If I file, then I hire the lawyer, serve him and all he has to do is pay for his appearance in court. I would have to pay for the lawyer and more legal costs. I would in the end though get more money from his pension, so it is still cost effective for me to hire a lawyer to get part of his pension.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
