I so appreciate what you wrote and shared. I am getting to the point you are at. What kind of quality relationship can we have with contact from them. There really is none to little acknowledgement of the pain and confusion they have caused everyone. Everything is on their terms and timing. It just is such a game and i don't think I can play anymore.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
