If you decide to be with her I think she has to show you equal commitment.
Only you know if that has happened.
You have gained some hard ground. Give it like its gold.
I don't mean be stubborn
I mean she should show you its worth giving the ground.
TG, you always come in to this with sage advice! Thanks!
Yes, I know forgiveness is a gift to myself. I agree with the commitment, the trick is how long I wait for the same level from her? I have been the one doing the heavy lifting and she acknowledges it too. She knows she has to meet me in the middle eventually and has been dialoguing with me on that, when will that be? That's the 10,000 question. I do see enough progress from her the past month to know she's working on it and is aware of her part in any R. There's plenty of hope and I know that I'll be fine!
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!
