I don't think he's an MLCer but this is the best argument I've seen so far to not bring up any convos about reconcile or the marriage.
I am quite familiar with the quote that you wrote down and the articles associated with it are tremendous. Solo Partner is NOT an MLC book, FTR. It is a relationship book. And the author was a very good marriage counselor. There is more information about that book associated with the forum there. That I can highly recommend you read. It will give you all the traits. Whether they are pursuit or distance ones for each person. They are copied directly from the book. Hope that helps.
