Thanks 2! And just to add to it, After W got up this morning she talked to me about our S13 ignoring some boundaries we had set for him. 2 positives of this is first, she told me about it and 2nd, she wanted us both to talk to him together.
With each positive step, I remind myself to not have expectations but be thankful. I'm slow but its sinking in....
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms