2tp, I understand what you are saying... although... from the WAS's I've read here... I'm not too sure about that...
I don't think that Sandi or Brit said to their H's that they wanted to get D and have another child with their H's...
I'm not sure that either of them decided to break it off with their H's thinking that the world would be rosy... and I don't think they went out and got boob jobs... lol