I helped my W move some of her stuff to her new apartment today. This impressed my MIL who said "wow may be you guys will get back together". This made me feel better but within seconds my W responds to her mother - "I don't know mom"; in a very dead pan way. Geez...I've got a long road ahead. But until she lets go of the OM within a few months, I don't see much of a future for us. She has repeated to me that the OM is not her boyfriend...just a friend (while I'm busy biting my tongue till it bleeds I'm thinking..."yeah a friend with benefits"). But in all honesty I don't have a clue as to what is going on! She is moving out completely in two day...I'll just keep on going with DR and GALing...and giving her the space and time she needs. Man it is tough being the happy, helpful friend while getting stabbed in the back!
