I think taking the high road is one of the #1 success factors here and you are exhibiting that in your actions. I know it is hard, but I also know as you said that you feel better after treating your H that way. Hopefully it will pay dividends down the road. I been doing acts of kindness/unconditional love and I have no expectations, I am doing these things because they are the right thing to do, and with no strings attach which is a 180 for me.
Keep your chin up and keep up the good work!!!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
