So H finally contacted me via email about getting the remainder of his belongings at my house. He apologized for everything that has happened these past few months and that he went about things the wrong way.
He also told me the things that he would pick up and is trying to get together with a friend to find a good weekend to pick up things (which I know to be a lie because I'm good friends with the wife and her H works days and is off by 3 on the weekends, so he has time to go almost any weekend.)
He then said he refinanced his car and needs my signature on the old title for the new bank refi?? He asked to forge my name...I'm going to say no to that!
He then said now onto our current situation and asked if I was going to file for D and if we are going to do this the nice way or not...meaning am I going to try to take half his pension?
He said he's been trying to put this whole thing in the back of his head and not really think about anything but he said that leads to procastination which is delaying things and anything that "life is sending our way..."
I'm heartbroken all over again because this is another step towards the big D!
I'm going to wait a couple days to respond...
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July