Hey, did you ever look into the "total transformation system" I mentioned awhile back? If not, look it up. I think it might be helpful for you and the troubles you are having with the kids.
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife