Going around in circles

[angel61]

HI Cyrena,

I did check out Al Turtles website and so far what I've seen is good!

University of Life indeed.....the cheekiness of it made me laugh!We are enrolled in that, for sure, but flunking too many courses.... on an extended Spring Break right now....

When I say going downhill, I meant more about my M in general, but I do take that back.The downhill is relative, it just meant that finally we have aired all our dirty laundry and perhaps, we are growing and getting ready to move in another direction. and its true, all this has made me wiser, stronger, more spiritual, more patient, able to hold my tongue, lose the anger, gain perpsective in live, become less selfish, and all those are uphill ovements. I did not mean to generalize, and I think thats the danger in this posts, we only tend to see the topic of the moment.

Boundaries.... I have never been into that all my life, my boundaries tend to be arbitrary and moveable. If there is a way to live in a reasonable manner then I am open to that. I believe that there are many ways to be happy, and not necessarily right to everyone else but right for you, and I am open to that.

So I still cannot grasp this, nor do I know how to apply this to my life. Is it something like writing an SOP????

Then I do an audit, and even if I am happy, he is happy, D is happy, if ourlife did not meet my criteria then its goodbye? I don't know about that.

25 used to say, do you want to be right, or happy?

Circling......