So I have been really good at not initiating conversation with H. I take my D to his house at night so he can keep her while I work. I read and play with her before I leave. I just act as if he isnt there. The first day nothing ;the 2nd he kept looking at me. I make sure I look cute and wear perfume. Im smiling and acting as if my life will go on. So I am trying to GAL. Yesterday our S zipped his stuff up. I sent H a text to have him come look at it and he doesnt respond. So i drive there and he's not there. This was at 11:30 PM. He text me today and asks if I paid the sitter. He won't pay her so what why would he ask? Now he is trying to get into an argument via text. I just told him he can talk to me not get into it via text. Should I have done that? Am I wrong? He has the kids this weekend so I will see him when he picks up our D. We always fight on the weekends beacuse he is going to be with his GF; he will lie and tell me that they will not be together. I don't know what do to.